some things in life you just know no matter how much you try to forget, you know at the end of the day, it is still there.. came across this from theresa's blog who got it from meiying's blog and totally agreed with it.. so i shall post it and quoted by meiying, obtained from theresa's blog.. =)

Finding love is like finding shoes.
We are wanted shoes to be good looking, comfortable, multiple purpose & of course at our ideal price.

Shoes who are nice looking generally bite & give you blisters
(just like gd looking bastards)

Shoes that are comfortable, we generally complain abt them looking shabby/ugly/dowdy
(just like the good guys)

We don't want shoes that can only wear for special occasions
(not realistic!)

We don't want shoes that are beyond our budget
(not worth the sacrifice)

When shoes don't fit, we try to change it.
Add soles, stick plaster to make it work, just like relationships.
Ultimately, we know deep down, it's not the perfect pair at all.
Which is why we ended up throwing it away & buying more shoes like how we get in & out of relationships.

but there's certain pair of shoes you just love it that much. hence and therefore cobbler exist.
they mend the holes (like how advisor advises) then its all good and ready to be worn again (to reboot the r/s, like sunshine after rain) but still.. a shoe cant be continually mend, there, there's still a point of time it can no longer be ammend like how a relationship reaches the breaking point.

HOW TRUE.. HOW TRUE..

like what every other ppl say, what is meant to be, is meant to be.. what i believe is some things just can't force, even though you have put in so much, you just have to let go.
you will know and feel it when the right person enter into your life. you will just know it.